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[quote=Anonymous]Didn't read all 12 pages but I see people saying that finances shouldn't be equal because her DH makes so much, and I want to ask at what point does it not be equal? If there was a man making $200k, and they decide it's best for the woman to stay at home with the 3 kids, I think most of us would agree that she should have equal say in finances. What if the man makes $500k? Still equal? What about $1 mil? $3 mil? If the man goes from $200k to $2m in 15 years, does that mean the woman starts as an equal financial partner but then diminishes over time until she has to ask for permission to buy anything outside that original $100k "equality"? OP, the bottom line is that you needed to have this conversation when you first started SAH. Since you didn't, you need to have it now for better or worse. And for crying out loud no silent treatment. You're not 5 years old.[/quote]
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