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[quote=Anonymous]You can have a no sleepover rule at your house, but you will quickly destroy your relationship with your adult child if you try to police his relationships outside of your home. Make him pay for gas or contribute to the car payments/upkeep, but do it because he’s now a college grad and can start to pay his way, not because you want to control his movements. Plus, he could easily convince a friend to drive him or get his GF to come pick him up. FWIW I am pretty against casual sex / having sex too soon in a relationship. But I know treating my adult kids like children (and making an arbitrary rule that doesn’t prevent them from actually having sex) is not smart if I want to stay close to them. You had your chance to instill your values in your kid— now let him be. [/quote]
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