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[quote=Anonymous]I thought this thread might benefit from a story of someone who had good experiences of sexual activity in 9th grade. I had a long term bf in 9th grade, beginning at 14. I turned 15 in the winter of 9th grade, so hard to remember what we did when I was 14 v 15. We did a lot of “everything but” and he did not go blabbing all over school and there were not rumors or mean comments or insults hurled my way. This was at a large MCPS HS in the 90s. We had a very close relationship emotionally and a lot of joy exploring sexually. It was a good experience overall and I really have no regrets. One of my HS friends who was the first to have seen a penis up close and personal (yes, at a youth group overnight and early on in 9th grade) is now happily married to that boy/man. Are there risks? Yes. Is it reasonable for parents to recommend going slow and taking the time to try to ensure this is someone worthy of your trust? Of course. But sexual exploration at 14/15 and in 9th grade can turn out just fine too and is not a guarantee of bigger life problems. [/quote]
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