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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why would anyone think that it's normal or good for 14 year olds to have sex? [/quote] Nobody thinks that. Rather, you need to acknowledge that they might have sex anyway, and if they do, you don’t want them to get pregnant or get an STD.[/quote] This is a dumb argument. Listen my kid has a friend whose parents are wishy washy about sex. They give their kid mixed messages, and she has plenty of opportunities to have sex with her boyfriend. They hang out in the bedroom with the door closed, and spend a lot of alone time together. I’m sure the mom is open about sex, pregnancy and BC. But so what??? Open line of communication means nothing when the door is shut. I have an open line of communication with my kid, but there are no boys in my daughters bedroom. I think that’s a better model, but you do you….[/quote] There will be boys in your daughter’s bed with the door closed soon after she enters college in under 4 years. That is simply the reality for nearly all college bound girls in the USA. This is why education on the benefits of condoms is crucial, and it needs to happen long before 18.[/quote]
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