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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The greed and entitlement on this thread is so gross. I hope it’s the same poster over and over and not multiple crazy people. [/quote]

+1.  OP, did your father treat you well before you turned 18? Do you want your father to be happy?  What do you expect from your father when you are an adult? [/quote]

Why does their father need to pay a woman to “be happy”?[/quote]

How do you know this? Even it is the case, it is the father’s life and money.  He does what he wants, he does now owe his adult child anything.  [/quote]

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Ask yourself how you would like your children to be treated, if their father is still alive when they are adults. Ignored in favor of a new family? Would you remarry and have more kids and ignore your older children? I doubt it. But somehow it's okay for your DH to do it to his.[/quote]

What if the adult kids ignore Dad?  What if the mother wouldn't allow a relationship?  You think in that situation they should 100% inherit all money?  What about the fact his wife also earned a portion of the money?  What about the fact that the new marriage lasted far longer than the original one?  Sometimes Dads want to be a part of the kids lives but the mom's refuse and will not allow it, even when the kids are adults.

No one is entitled to an inheritance.  Even if your parents are married you are not entitled for them to pay for college and inherit.

And, in all honesty, I wouldn't bother telling my husband's "kids" when he passes if I outlive him.  My kids wouldn't tell them either.  They can figure it out when Mom stops receiving his pension check.  [/quote]

You seem like a real charmer, I can't imagine why they'd avoid spending time with you.

The children are adults now and if their father wishes to rebuild a relationship with them, there is nothing their mother can do to stop him. If your DH doesn't have it in him to do that, I wonder why you chose him to be the father of your children. Remember, how he treats them is how he will treat yours some day.[/quote]

He treats me very well and treated them very well too.  I have no worries.  I know why I choose him to be my kids father and he's a great father.

Now, you should talk to the AP's ex-wife.  She can tell you lots of stories about his ex-wife.  She is far from a nice, good person.[/quote]

The thread is not about ex’s.[/quote]

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