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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Teach your boys to interact with girls. Teach your boys to interact with one another in the real world and not only online. Far too many young men's only interaction with other people is through screens. Men aren't encouraged to have friends with other men. Men are socially isolated and incompetent.[/quote] Because they've been completely neutered by calling every single thing they do "toxic" or "creepy". But yes, instead of calming down on that hysteria a bit, let's situate the locus of all blame on them.[/quote] Maybe don’t push back when women say XYZ behavior makes them uncomfortable. Maybe don’t laugh it off when Tiger Woods hands his buddy a tampon to tell him how inferior he is. Honestly, why would we insist on promoting behavior that women find repellent and then complain that the women won’t date them? You can rant about how society is changing for the worse but you can’t try to relegate women back to second class status and have them embrace it. [/quote] +1 You know how men can find a woman? Don't be a massive jerk. Don't be a misogynist. Don't act like women owe them anything. Be receptive to her feelings and needs without always bulldozing over them. Flirt a little. Stop being to shy to interact at all.[/quote] I think boys and young men need to also learn not to take every complaint from a woman they see online as being representative of women as a whole. It's pretty easy to read a few women saying how they hate when men approach them and then use that as an excuse to give into the boy's own shyness and not even trying to flirt. They can tell themselves that they're just being respectful. But that's not a good long-term strategy. [/quote]
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