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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recall a distinct sadness and disorientation when I became sexualized in the eyes of society.  My appearance became my identity, and it was truly dehumanizing.  I felt a real loss.  I was probably 13/14 when I recognized this happening.

I imagine this experience is pretty universal for teenage girls.  It’s depressing.[/quote]
IMO, it doesn't help that some of these girls wear such skimpy clothing.  I know I know.. why punish girls for what they wear.  That's not point.   My point is that unfortunately, our society (men in particular) do sexualize girls and unfortunately, what the girls wear is more likely to draw that type of attention.  It sucks, but that is the reality.  We can teach our boys to not do that till we turn blue in the face, but we cannot teach other parents to teach their boys this.  Social media makes it worse. Some girls do it to themselves by putting up sexualized images of themselves, and then you see people post negative things about them.

Stay off social media.  [/quote]

I remember some perv telling me he liked how my breasts bounced around when I was shaking my parcel at the post office to make sure I had put in enough bubble wrap. I was so puzzled as I normally don't wear form fitting clothes (enough to hide a pregnancy until the 4th month) and I was not large chested. That's when I realized, what you are wearing will not protect you.
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I know.. that's why I stated " what the girls wear is [u]more likely [/u]to draw that type of attention."... but some creeps will make these comments regardless of what you are wearing.

But, let's be honest.. you are more likely to get this kind of negative attention if you wear skimpy clothing.  Imagine if you were wearing something skimpy around that perv.[/quote]

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