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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I make more than he does,[/quote]

This is important. If true, it's odd you haven't mentioned this. It would have been logical to lead with it. Makes me wonder if it's true[/quote]

OP. Why is that weird? I mentioned we both work. I don’t believe he should do more than me because he makes less. I just want him to do half. [/quote]

I agree with this.  Chores should be divided on time, not money.   Though the fact that he's not even pulling his weight financially pushes me even more firmly into the "get rid of him" camp.

A harsh reality of divorce is that it costs money and supporting two households costs more that supporting one.  So generally there's a fall in quality of life.  Now this absolutely is worth it to get out of a bad situation.

Given this guy isn't covering his part of the bills, though I don't think OP's quality of life will fall that much.  It might get better given his spending habits.  He can't spend his half if it's garnished from his wages.[/quote]

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