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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some of you people are ridiculous. Not everyone is lucky enough to meet a suitable mate in college, get married around 27 and get started on a planned family at 30.

I got pregnant by accident at 30 with a man I was casually seeing. He told me to have an abortion but I refused. I wanted children and I wasn’t willing to abort an existing baby and throw the dice on another chance. Also I am pro choice but once I was actually pregnant I felt that I was carrying a baby and did not want to abort.

Anyway, we reconciled after the baby was born and he is a great dad. We seem to be about equally as happy as other couples who took the traditional route. [/quote]

So pps are ridiculous because you got lucky?  It could have gone the other way, and more often than not, it does.

An no one is asking you to make a different choice. But the outcome in the  OP is more common than yours.[/quote]

Soo many people in this thread are suggesting she should have had an abortion because the dad asked her to. Sometimes you just make the best of a bad situation. [/quote]

I don't think they would be suggesting so if she accepted the fact that the man would not be involved

She chose to have a baby on her own even after the sperm donor made it clear that he did not want it. And now she is complaining about him being nothing more than a sperm donor.

I have a family friend who made the same choice and is very happy with her daughter and their lives. The father is not in their lives and does not contribute financially. She does not complain and has a huge support network of family and friends. This is exactly how she thought it would be.[/quote]

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