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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op: number one rule. Never, I repeat never talk to the Man. (The po po, fuzz, etc). You do not show the therapist a picture. You do not open the door to interference from cps. See above, do not talk to the man. You can do therapy. Work on your marriage and anger management. People are so stupid to not understand. Never invite the man into your business. [/quote] +1 You don't want to get caught up in the criminal justice system unless it's a serious offense. If it's domestic violence, which could be as harmless as someone throwing a remote control on the ground, police will arrest if they have probable cause. Gone are the days of working things out. [/quote] Uh, how well did letting them alone to work it out turn out for Gabby Petito? This idea that police jump to arrest abusers is either naïveté or misogyny. [/quote] She didn’t file a report. Once you file a report it all unfolds like clockwork. [/quote] https://www.npr.org/2022/08/29/1119325730/his-mom-and-sister-were-killed-now-hes-channeling-grief-to-fight-domestic-violen It really doesn’t. Are you naïve or just good with dead women as long as no one hurts an abusers feeling? [/quote] This is a ridiculous series of errors by the police and became lethal for reasons having nothing to do with them, but rather with state gun laws. However a series of errors like this is not that common, unless you are in a rural area (I personally have been told the same thing by a rural police officer when trying to file a report, more than once). Please note that once she filed the report he was arrested. I can’t speak the rest. But what makes you think that somehow a child welfare agency that is notorious for failures, oversight, mistakes and causing trauma is somehow doing a better job than the police who can actually address the perpetrators behavior?[/quote]
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