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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe OP is concerned about her DH being around these cousins because of the chance they make more “unfounded” accusations. For all we know, the penpal letters might truly have been fine, but maybe the cousin didn’t like the situation because of the DH’s upskirt history. And the cousin reported DH’s criminal history to the school where he was he was employed and got him fired (which is odd—how did the school not run a background check? Why did the parol officer not find him in violation of his parol terms if it was a problem?). The DH clearly did something wrong with the photos but it’s hard to know if that intent extended to the girl cousin. OP can’t seem to be objective about what her DH did and how others in the family may view it—rightly or wrongly. Because she can’t be objective, she views the accusations as unfounded which might lead to concerns about more accusations if they see the cousins or maybe there’s some lingering anger toward the cousin and OP doesn’t want to be around them. Regardless, this is DH’s call to make and OP shouldn’t have gone to the in-laws asking for a heads up in the future. [/quote]

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