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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am 37 and have three kids and am very financially well off and very happily married. I can assure you I judge no one. I spent most of my 20s enduring a series of unforeseeable tragedies. I spend my time grateful for what I have not judging anyone for being on a different road.

Generally IMO 'judgers' fall into two main categories:

1) People deeply unhappy with themselves or their own life in some way who judge so they don't have to examine their own choices

2) People who have never encountered real hardship and believe that it isn't luck that got them there but their own personal choices.

Frankly you sound like a #1. You're judging them/me, we're not judging you.[/quote]

I'm 43 with two but this is me. You might look at me and think I have it all but you have no idea what I've been through. Smug is the last thing I am. But for the grace of God go I is more like it.

I'm secure in my choices (working versus staying at home, public versus private school, time spent with or away from children, etc.) but that doesn't make me smug.[/quote]

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