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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But the fact that she was out partying doesn't change what many of us have been arguing the whole time. It doesn't matter that her children are by different fathers, and all of the other judgmental crap you all are spewing. No one is really saying that it was OK for her to leave them at home UNLESS she was out at work. And we were waiting for word on that. And now yes, like PP said, we got word that she's a piece of crap for THAT decision. Not having children by different men. Different issues entirely. But really, what was the point of this thread? OK, we all got the message. Don't leave your children at home alone while you go out partying. Got it. But we all know that wasn't the point of this thread. It's a bunch of DC folks pointing at "those people" and chortling their judgmental "oh, see, here's her picture, hee hee hee." Enjoy the rest of your fun.[/quote] I think this thread was about people being fed up by irresponsible behavior and then others coming on here giving excuses... it's okay to have a bunch of kids by different baby daddy's, even if you can't take care of them, it's totally acceptable..... she was probably volunteering and working....... we are all so racist and judgemental, those people don't know better because their poor, you know you can't expect much from them folks down south......(this one really bugs me, WTH?) Such ignorance, really. And the truth is? Girlfriend was getting down at the club and found that to be more important than taking care of her children. Sorry some of us are pissed and appalled by this kind of behavior. [/quote] This thread started way before anyone knew what her story was, where she was, etc. so this baloney that you think it was just about being irresponsible is bullshit. What if she WAS working? What if? Because this thread started before that question was answered. AND IT'S ABSOLUTELY OK FOR ANYONE TO HAVE CHILDREN BY DIFFERENT MEN. Who the fuck are you to say otherwise? Is that your daughter? Then shut up you judgmental ass. And the WTF comment is you being an idiot and misunderstanding. No one said we can't expect much of poor people down south. What was said, because I SAID IT, was that we should expect more of ourselves you moron. [/quote] jesus christ, it is NOT ok to have kids by several different men IF the men are not going to help emotionally and financially as parents and IF you are not independently wealthy. We are all in this boat together, and our tax dollars and our future are tied in with everyone else.[/quote]
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