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[quote=Anonymous]See, I've never thought "feminism" was the reason not to be some married guy's mistress anyway. That's a bad news situation that is guaranteed to blow up and bring me nothing be heartache and regret. So I avoid making bad choices like that for my own sake, first and foremost. But yes, it's also against my ethics to contribute to harming an innocent party. I also can't imagine how I would find a man willing to cheat on his wife attractive -- obviously our moral sensibilities do not align. There's no single reason not to be a mistress. But I do agree that it's anti-feminist to expect women to safeguard each other's marriages. You married an autonomous adult. He, and he alone, is responsible for being the partner he's agreed to be. Does that mean being a mistress is some empowered choice? No way. You're still an idiot if you choose that your for yourself. But you're not responsible for someone else's marital fidelity.[/quote]
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