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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread is so DCUM. The obsession with control. Thinking g you can tell your partner who they can and can't have sex with. Are you a puppet master? Laughing at all of the people stating their partner never cheated on them. At least half of you are wrong. [/quote] No one put a gun to their head when they took their vows and my man asked me to marry him. Maybe he just shouldn't have. Yes, your comment is typical DCUM.[/quote] Who includes fidelity in their vows? What are you, 100 years old? No one cares about vows. It's just something you say. Theater. [/quote] NP and honestly no at this point in my marriage I agree with you. I grew up thinking cheating was morally wrong and there’s no exception to that. If you cheat, you’re the bad guy no matter what. Fast forward to my marriage, my DH is dismissive, critical, unkind, talks down to me, and refuses to do an ounce to keep our household running. Yes, I’ve thought about divorce many times. I don’t leave because of finances and the kids. There’s recently been someone who caught my eye, who is attractive and kind to me. Most DCUM would day if your marriage is that bad, work on it or just divorce. It’s never as easy as that, ever. All I’m trying to say is things are never so black and white. My DH had probably never had an affair but his vows, to PP’s point, were theater. He doesn’t love, honor, and cherish me. If I were to have an affair because I need a break from the constant trauma of DH’s treatment of me, I refuse to believe I’d be the bad guy. [/quote]
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