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[quote=Anonymous]And btw how does a child not know that their dad doesn't have other lovers as a teenager after he leaves the house? How in the world do you think this can be kept a secret and why would you want to do so? To speak of worlds, what world do you live in where somehow all this just goes by and kids don't know? And then what do they know instead? That dad and mom didn't get along and so decided to halve their money and now you can't go to a nice college paid for by your parents or live in your old house because of a disagreement? How does this help them? Look I'm sorry you cheated or were the child of a cheater and don't want to face up to these things. Feel shame for their behavior. If you are the kid just know it's their behavior and you have your own life. Cheating like any other "other worldly experience" is a temptation and makes people uncomfortable being married to you if you go through with it and so think about this before doing this yourself or be prepared if your spouse does this to work through it or leave. It's the same with any other problematic behavior. Do you also tell women and men to not report physical abuse? Mom and dad just had a disagreement when you have a black eye? Are you from a country where this stuff is hush hush? Incest etc?[/quote]

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