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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Some of you seem to have a low opinion of BIL too. In defense of him. He never minded when she was overweight etc.  It was only when she developed all these health issues including diabetes and now neuropathy etc that he is starting to panic.  Plus combined with his own health woes that could be vastly improved with diet.

Agreed it would not end well if we sat down with SIL. [b]If I were carrying an extra 150 lbs I'd be sitting on the couch too.[/b]  But something has got to give.  [/quote]

My God you are a truly awful, awful person. I hope your poor SIL stays incredibly far away from you, as do her kids. You are not a safe person to be near.

Actually I now feel sorry for your entire family that has to be near you. 
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You have a psychological problem. The word "fat" equals "shaming" to you. They are not one and the same. My father died of alcoholism and heavy smoking. (I also have obese family members.) I was very young. I resented him for years for choosing cigarettes and alcohol over being in his children's lives. I'm over that now because it's been so long. I wish I had had the insight to tell him that when he was still alive. SIL is killing herself. She will not live to see her grandchildren. Someone should speak up. The word "fat" is not the word "disgusting" any more than "alcoholism" or "lung cancer" are.[/quote]

Hey, get yourself to a therapist for your horrific psychological problems and stay far, far away from your poor SIL. You are a genuinely awful person. [/quote]

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