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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your husband is terrible. He's not giving you credible fashion advice. The outfit is pefectly cute - and if it didn't work on you, I can't imagine it's because it made you look like a bumblebee. I appreciate when my DH says stuff like "that washes you out" or "it's not a flattering fit". What your DH did is not helpful. It's just an insulting and strange view, and has to be explained as an effort to control your behavior or your feelings, as many others already said. The nail in the coffin of course is that he didn't offer his opinion and leave it at that. He punished you for not doing what he said. That's outrageous. If you want to be a woman who takes direction from her husband, that's your prerogative, but you clearly don't (otherwise you wouldn't have posted), and so I really see this situation as a clear indication of a more serious problem in your DH's attitude toward you. I wouldn't let it go. Given that you have kids, I would try couples therapy first before jumping to divorce.[/quote]
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