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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m female in my late 40s and make $500k.  My kids are taken care of and their father makes just under $1M.

I get what you’re looking for—someone who can keep up with you financially and culturally.  It’s expensive to travel to Europe for 2 weeks in summer, spend 2 weeks skiing in the winter, and have a few long weekends.  You’re future partner needs to be able to pay their own way.  People on DCUM are so quick to tell women who want a more extravagant lifestyle to get their own money.  Well, you have your own money.  I don’t see why what you’re looking for is unreasonable.  However, in the DC area it’s probably not realistic.  You need to look in NY or Silicon Valley.[/quote]

Vomit. And yes, you are right. Those men are not in DC. Which is why I told a family member to leave 20 years ago...and he did and now very wealthy.[/quote]

Did your family member find a high net worth gentlemen in his new home area?[/quote]

The family member is a man and a multimillionaire. He married an immigrant (Eastern European) who is not at all like OP. She is not materialistic at all. [/quote]

It’s a totally different situation - if she’s a young imjgrant without much to her name she won’t be thinking about a man contributing equally. She will ge happy with whatever her husband offers as she married him when he had it all already [/quote]

She is not young now and Harvard graduate degree. Stop with your assumptions. They married when he was just getting started. They married before age 30.[/quote]

Stop with this fake thinking she went to Harvard for non-materialist goals. Everyone knows why people complete for these scholarships or pay tuition fees: access to certain circles, higher salaries, higher success. She didn't marry "Joe the Plumber". Neither did I (didn't go to Harvard but to another pretty well ranked program)[/quote]

You do not have a PhD from Harvard. She does. [/quote]

I never needed one and there is no PhD for lawyers. There is an SJD but it’s for those who take academia route. [/quote]

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