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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Youngest child is nine but we average 1x/6 weeks. I was ready to go within two weeks of each birth but DH is...different. That said, I think once a week unless both of you are extremely high-drive is excellent. The thing about men is that they want to know that things will improve. You should tell DH that in X amount of months, given sufficient household/childcare help, you will return to 2-3x/week of some form of intimacy. Marriages die when the high-drive partner is deprived for years and there is no prospect of ever having regular intimacy again. Limbo is the worst. [/quote]

Wow, you're having sex less than 12 times a year?? [/quote]

Marriage counselors define a “sexless marriage” as fewer than 11 instances of coitus per year.[/quote]

I don’t give a $hi! how marriage counselors define a sexless marriage. A sexless marriage means no sex.  11 times a year after having twins are you insane??? And yes I have twins! good GOD people. Also if a woman wants to have tons of sex after having twins THATS FINE TOO but I spent the first 4 months breastfeeding around the clock and digging myself into a deep pit of insomnia and insanity. I don’t remember months 4 until mostly the present and now they’re starting middle school. I just can’t with you people. [/quote]

Given your generally hostile attitude toward the topic of intimacy, I pity your poor husband.

+10000

You do not sound the least bit open to an honest dialog on the issue.[/quote][/quote]

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