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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Youngest child is nine but we average 1x/6 weeks. I was ready to go within two weeks of each birth but DH is...different. That said, I think once a week unless both of you are extremely high-drive is excellent. The thing about men is that they want to know that things will improve. You should tell DH that in X amount of months, given sufficient household/childcare help, you will return to 2-3x/week of some form of intimacy. Marriages die when the high-drive partner is deprived for years and there is no prospect of ever having regular intimacy again. Limbo is the worst. [/quote]

Wow, you're having sex less than 12 times a year?? [/quote]

Marriage counselors define a “sexless marriage” as fewer than 11 instances of coitus per year.[/quote]

I don’t give a $hi! how marriage counselors define a sexless marriage. A sexless marriage means no sex.  11 times a year after having twins are you insane??? And yes I have twins! good GOD people. Also if a woman wants to have tons of sex after having twins THATS FINE TOO but I spent the first 4 months breastfeeding around the clock and digging myself into a deep pit of insomnia and insanity. I don’t remember months 4 until mostly the present and now they’re starting middle school. I just can’t with you people. [/quote]

Actually I am sure that many if not the majority of marriage counselors would say that even though a marriage might be technically sexless that doesn’t mean it’s actually something to fix. What if one partner physically can’t have sex because of an illness? Would all therapists recommend divorce or an affair?

Sometimes our spouses have problems and we have to suck it up. [/quote]

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