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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you love about her? [/quote]

OP here. I love the way she makes me feel. She makes me feel comfortable around her and important. Before her doing the 180, she was very appreciative of everything I did for her, and wya acknowledged it. The gesture goes a long way and it was nice to be appreciated because there have been times I would pay for dinner without so much as an offer to spilt the check ( wouldn’t have but the gesture is important) or a simple thank you. The sex was amazing and she loved it multiple times a day. She was caring and affectionate. Very spontaneous and adventurous. There was never a dull moment or moments where I felt awkward or uncomfortable around her. I never felt a weird feeling during post but clarity. In fact, I felt intense love for her after. I loved her femininity, shared interests, [b]her passion for her job[/b], etc. So many things I can’t put down on here. [/quote]

you mean the job she is desperate to give up to pop out your babies and stay at home?[/quote]

OP here. I don’t think there is necessarily anything wrong with this. My mom quit her job to raise me and my brother. My SIL quit her job to raise her kids. Several friends wives quit their job or started working PT once they had kids. I don’t see anything wrong with a woman wanting to stay home to raise kids. [/quote]

the point was this aspect of her you said you love is something she's happy to give up in a second, so her passion for her work isn't all that ingrained. it's fine for one spouse to quit their career to raise kids if the couple agree to it. Anyway, it's clear you're trying to twist yourself into a pretzel to justify to yourself marrying this woman. good luck, man. you'll need it. [/quote]

OP here. I had an issue with her wanting all these expensive things and an expensive lifestyle while she quits to stay home. I was not happy with that situation, but I don’t think there is anything wrong with a woman who wants to stay home and raise kids. [/quote]

I’m a sahm with an expensive lifestyle. I always liked nice things but I paid for them myself before I got married and had kids.

I’m often resentful that Dh gets to Focus on his career while I’m home with the kids. I’m sure he wishes he had a wife who was content being home raising the kids.[/quote]

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