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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for the responses. I am considering reaching out to the birthday person to ask why I wasn't invited because I just want to get to the bottom of it. It feels really hurtful and I want to know what I did. I will let you know how it goes. I know this may seem bold, but I feel like I need to be direct (yet polite).[/quote]

no OP no. there is nothing to get to the bottom of. here, I'll tell you the answer: She didn't want you there. The why is meaningless and not changeable.

and it doesn't seem bold btw, it seems foolish.

i'm sorry these things happen and it totally sucks but energy into other friends, other activities, etc is your next step.[/quote]

DP-- don't reach out. You need to be on the high ground here-- reaching out will make you seem needy and insecure. The reason you weren't invited is because you weren't - maybe the woman doesn't like you, maybe you didn't make the cut, maybe she was raised by wolves and doesn't know how behave-- who cares? At this point, it's awkward-- you'll make it worse for yourself. [/quote]

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