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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP and he is not reluctant. He is really pressuring me to get married. In answer to questions above he makes $75K right now, as do I. He could make about $10-20K more by working extra shifts, as I do.[/quote] It’s very concerning you feel he’s pressuring you. Do you not want to get married? I think you would both benefit from counseling. The ring is the least of your worries, a lot of what you say is troubling. He’s pressuring you, you don’t feel empowered to ask about a ring or honeymoon, he doesn’t want a wedding. This is supposed to be a joyful time, and it sounds like it’s just causing you stress because he holds all the power and you feel powerless. That’s going to get much, much worse if he does end up making $500k. Trust me, BTDT. Better to figure these things out now, than years down the road after marriage and kids and a mortgage. [/quote]
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