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[quote=Anonymous]My SIL was in a situation very similar to the OP and got divorced while her kids were in high school. Guess what, now her DH doesn't have to work at all every again because he got half of all their savings plus she has to pay him child support/alimony.  So now she really has to keep her high pressure job. And she only has her kids half the time. And her kids will likely inhere

That said she is happy because she is dating all the time (it helps that she is drop dead gorgeous and had kids young) and also she no longer has to be around her (ex)husband when he is jus hanging out, relaxing and she is all stressed with work.

My advice to you is to try to not look backwards. Look at the choices in front of you now and figure out what is best for you and your family -- and what is really bothering you now. if what is really bothering you is that you feel like your DH's choices and your desire to do well financially are leaving you trapped in a stressful job, divorce wont change that. Even remarriage won't really change it since a new DH won't really support your kids in all likelihood.

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