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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The summary is completely wrong and makes a lot go assumptions, but that’s unsurprising. I’ve lived in NYC for a long time, and stated zero inaccuracies about the housing complexities my brother is facing.

You think you’re smart. Well, no. It’s not ok for SIL - a 45 year old woman, not naive - to lead her MIL to believe she had been married, that she’s eager to get pregnant despite knowing she can’t leave her 1 bedroom nor legally have another adult and a potential newborn there, and to tell her fiancé they’d marry this past spring, and then blow past that date because she can’t marry and live as an actual family. You may like people who lie to your mothers and spin shit to your brother. I don’t.

Its not going to work out, and that’s just fine. [/quote]

WHY are you so involved in her finances and real estate decisions? Even if she's using the apartment as a way to delay marriage, why is that your business?  Is your bother not an adult? An actual gold-digger would have accepted his offer and relied on him to pay the rent.  She's looking after her own finances, sounds like.  When you're in your 40s and have a kid already, those are the kind of decisions that responsible people make. You're not 20 years old and going to go live in a studio apartment together in Queens.  [/quote]

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