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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]She said yes to going out with him[/quote]

She's demonstrated that [b]she's not your girlfriend.[/b]  Actions speak louder than words.  Demote her to FWB while you look for someone who wants to be your gf.[/quote]

New poster. This, above.

I'm not going to take time read 12 pages of posts. OP, get a grip. She brought her friend just as cover for what was a date. This let your GF check the guy out while she could claim, but my friend was there! The guy didn't know she was bringing a friend (you say so in your OP). She did the friend thing to cover it with YOU and make it look OK.

If she were an actual friend of this guy and he were getting divorced and wanted to talk about how to date, with his good female friend whom he knows has a boyfriend (you) --- that would be totally different, and fine. But that is not the situation at all. He was asking her, basically a stranger asking another stranger, for advice on dating? Get real. He was using the good old "poor me, I'm gonna be so lonely soon, can you advise me?" sad sack act to land a date.

The fact she defends this all by pointing out to you that she gets hit on all the time would be a big red flag, to me. She seems...very confident, to say the least. Confident women are great. Women who pretend they believe that a random freshly divorcing dad is not hitting on them but just wants warm, fuzzy advice? They're claiming to be someone's GF while always on the lookout for someone else to come along.

Oh, and "girlfriend/boyfriend" is supposed to mean commitment, right? If she's doing this stuff and telling you how she's so hot she's always being hit on -- that doesn't sound like a loving, committed relationship.
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