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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Since you are already owed a weekend, I’d tell him he can’t go until you get yours. Fair is fair. [/quote] +1 OP the trip doesn't concern me as much as the equity. [/quote] Marriage isn’t about equality. No matter what anyone says. Responsibilities, chores, finances never work out 50/50. Everyone should give their best effort and give the other person the benefit of the doubt. All the time. I would want my DH to enjoy time with his friends since he has very few of them and I think it’s healthy for him. My DH would want the same for me. In your case, it’s not wrong for him to ask the question. And it’s not wrong for you to say no if you feel overwhelmed with two kids and need his support. And it’s not wrong for him to feel upset that you said no. Conflict is also a form of communication. He now knows where your boundaries are in terms of putting family first.[/quote]
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