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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No one has yet to explain why this guy didn’t tell his ex “no I don’t have feelings for her” when she asked. If he didn’t have feelings for OP he just would’ve come right and said that but he didn’t, why?[/quote]

You know why. Because he does.

He was waffling to OP.[/quote]

I don’t even think it’s that. If he was so worried about OPs feelings he wouldn’t have answered his ex’s call to begin with. Even OP was sitting at home if he cared he wouldn’t gotten into a discussion about OP with his ex.

He found out that his ex was on a date last month, got upset about it, and had so much of an issue he had to contact his ex. His ex, a month later in turn asks him if he has feelings for OP. He responds “I don’t hate her”. He knows his ex is looking for him to confirm or deny with a yes or no, preferably deny with a no. So he’s not giving his ex a concrete answer with “I don’t date her. It’s not like that”. Of course he doesn’t hate OP. However, he is hurt that his ex is out here dating. He doesn’t want to say yes because it’s not true but isn’t going to say no to give his ex the satisfaction that he’s still hung up on her 100% and to not appear so vulnerable.

I hope this makes sense lol. [/quote]

Girl, I tried to follow but I’m old and my eyes confused. Bottom line. He still sounds like a player in the game. Ain’t. Ivory got time for that. ‘Cept rookies.  :hunf: [/quote]

Haha basically what I’m saying is he’s hurt that his ex went on a date last month. When his ex questioned him about OP he gave her an evasive answer to stick it to her. He wasn’t going to say yes he has feelings because 1 it’s not true and 2 it would take it too far. So instead he said “I don’t hate her” (which is. true he doesn’t). It’s his way of getting back at the ex since he’s hurt and to not appear vulnerable.

he's sticking it in her face with “I don’t hate her”/avoiding saying no because he's hurt about her moving on...he's relishing in her anguish, punishing her.[/quote]

I can definitely see that. Everything seems to point to that.[/quote]

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