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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Answering the subject line:  Low self-esteem and/or mental illness.  Some of these women have always gone after men in relationships. The psychology of pining after a man that sleeps with and is committed to another women is pathological.  They aren’t healthy enough for a man that is available.  Imagine knowing he goes home to his wife and family and can only communicate in code or see you in the dark one or two times a month and never a holiday or his birthday, or even yours.  Something is psychologically wrong.[/quote]

It doesn’t seem that the OW aspires to be an OW.  It seems she sees what the married couple has — home, kids, social life — and she wants it for herself (or at least the man for herself). She sees the man’s life and she either wants to plug-and-play herself into that ready-made life, or insert him as ravishing addition to her life.  Not matter what it’s pure fiction, and agree it’s pathological.

Meanwhile, they guy’s just in it for sex and an ego boost.  [/quote]

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