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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everyone here will tell you-- it's men. They get remarried and dump their bio kids in favor of the new wife's family or the kids they have together. Don't worry about the money, the 2nd wife (and her kids) will get any money inheritance. 
I wouldn't tolerate it-- would just keep my distance. [/quote]

OP here and I definitely feel this is the case with my dad. He still sees me and my siblings, but not as much as he sees his wife's kids. Even when he mentions it, [b]I feel angry but I just smile and say "Oh that's nice. I'm glad you had a good time." [/b]

Are you saying the second wife and her kids will get all the inheritance? 
My grandparents left it in a trust. Its supposed to go to my dad and then me and my siblings. But I accidentally got a document that my dad signed (he didn't mean to it include it in some other paperwork he gave to me) and it said that all of his money would be left to the wife. I really don't know if that means his money or my grandparents' trust and [b]I'm not going to ask.[/b] [b]But I don't want to be embattled with her one day[/b].

I definitely do feel like I'm going to keep my distance more. My partner and I were considering moving back to my home state and this kind of shit makes me reconsider.[/quote]

Your dad thinks things are great, and you're pissed. Are you so afraid of your dad that instead of asking these questions now, you'd rather wait until he's dead and fight with his wife?[/quote]

Seriously. Absolutely insane that OP is living like this. [/quote]

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