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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's being insensitive, but he's right about the will. Unless she's signed a prenup, she'll likely be entitled to at least 50% of his assets, as well as all of his retirement accounts. So if you were counting on that, forget about it. [/quote] Yes,[b] just because husband is being a jerk about it, doesn't mean he's entirely wrong. It is a concern. [/b] And it can be awkward AF to discuss, and you can state that up front. If there are currently understandings in place about inheritance (whatever that may be), then now is a very good time to bring it up and say "hey, I would like to have this discussion now, so we are all on the same page. Before mom died, I understood that you were planning to do X and Y – is that something that is going to change?" But this is your conversation to have with your father. And if you genuinely don't care (and won't in the future) then you don't have to do anything. [/quote] If it is a concern, [b]it's OP's concern[/b] - not her DH's. [b]OP's.[/b][/quote] We get it, you're a bitter unmarried person. Thanks for the sage marriage advice. :roll: [/quote] Actually, I'm a happily married person. [/quote]
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