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[quote=Anonymous]I'll try to meet you on your level. I had my kids in my late thirties because I was hotter in my 20s and sleeping around and living it up and didn't want to be bogged down with a family. The guys I was into would have made terrible fathers (at least at the time). Because I matured a lot as my twenties passed and the man I ended up with in my mid 30s loves me for me and not solely my physical attributes and I have zero insecurity around how pregnancy changed my body. I'm a better person in my thirties and forties than I was in my twenties, and a much better mom with values I'd like to pass on to my kids. Parenting in my twenties would have meant financial instability and emotional instability. Neither of which is "gross", but neither of which is preferable over a mom who may have lost her "hotness" but gained some sense. [/quote]
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