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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OF course you can ask, OP.  Most of DCUM completely ignores their cleaning lady and has no interaction other than leaving out a check on the counter.  So they can’t understand why it would matter to you what she looks like or wears.  
If it’s important to you that she is comfortable around you and your family and vice versa, then of course you can mention that you prefer people dress modestly in your home.  [/quote]
My parents’ weekly cleaning lady came to my wedding and I went to my weekly cleaning lady’s citizenship ceremony, and I would never dream of asking my cleaning lady to dress differently in the manner OP is describing. I’m getting douche chills just thinking about having that conversation.

And PPs are right, during Covid you should be giving your cleaning lady a lot of space, not hovering over her wondering what she’s wearing like Monica in that super weird Friends plot. And if your husband and/or sons are why you’re worried about this, a) that’s their problem, not hers; and b) keep them away from her instead of making her adjust how she works.

Could OP also ask her cleaning lady to grow her hair to her waist because that’s part of her religious tradition?[/quote]

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