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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]These people saying it takes strength to stay...pshaw, yeah right. No, it takes strength to uproot your life and give up financial security and companionship for the *chance* of finding another partner. Accepting your spouse's abuse is the easy way out. And that's fine. But let's cut the strength crap.[/quote] This is one of the reasons why I’m reluctant to even try counseling with my husband. I have a great career and am financially independent. I don’t need him for things like finances, insurance, etc. I am motivated mostly by my children to reconcile but o agree that when I look in the mirror and think about what he did to me, I am calling myself names For even thinking of trying. He hurt me in so many ways and my self image and confidence are at zero. [/quote]
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