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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I also work full time while doing almost everything to raise the kids and run the household. And my husband doesn't even work. I would never cheat. But sometimes I sure wish he would so I would finally have reason to leave. About 8 years ago, he accused me of cheating for absolutely no reason. Never have, never would. Literally, there was a group email thread between several of my friends from high school, a couple of whom were men and he was convinced I was planning to have an affair. It was the most bizarre thing. Our marriage has never been the same. He brings it up every few years as if I actually had an affiar--like he has created this complete fantasy as if it happened. If my husband can't get over something he completely imagined, I can't envision you getting over something that actually did. [/quote]

I give you permission to cheat and also to leave him. You don’t need a reason. [/quote]

Nope. Not to cheat.  Leave first.  You can’t introduce cheating and the hurt it would cause your children when found out...as it always does.  Plus, it’s undignified and trashy. Very trashy.  Plus, then you have to morally live with yourself after.  Even if I despised somebody, I have integrity and morals and would never cheat.

Hold your head high. Get your ducks in a row and leave.[/quote]

Honestly, no one cares what YOU would have done, your integrity and morals and whatever else you want a medal for.  You're not in this situation, she is.   Leave the woman alone with your lectures.[/quote]

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