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Reply to "Would you look the other way on cheating if everything else was perfect?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it’s easy to say if I have these things then I don’t care about cheating. It is very difficult to have all those things not be affected when a spouse is cheating. My dH cheated for years and when I found out he said that he didn’t let it affect the family. Not true - he went on business trips that weren’t necessary, he was distracted often, he spent money on her, the list goes on. He was never in love but it still takes away from everything. [/quote] This. My ex cheated for years and I'm confident he would still tell you it didn't imapct his parenting. Except all the times he was distracted by his phone while he was with the kids, or the times I took them on vacation alone because he was "working," or the sheer impossibility of being the best parent you can be while 60% of your brain space is being taken up by lust and the need to maintain a lie. [/quote] +1. “My affair makes me a better mom.” The dumb sh@t that is spouted on Ashley Madison.[/quote]
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