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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To say therapy doesn’t work for everyone wouldn’t be accurate at all. It doesn’t work for some people. Some therapists suck. I had a therapist texting me at midnight and trying to set meetings at 10pm. It was weird. DH’s therapist has been very helpful. She recommended books about repairing relationships that completely changed his framework for understanding the pain I was in. His therapist helped him find an addiction group and was a catalyst to his recovery. I’m so thankful for her help. DH has really dug into childhood trauma to better understand why he wasn’t faithful. I don’t think we’d be together now if he hadn’t been to therapy. [/quote] It sounds like he fully committed to it, which makes all the difference. So many cheaters (so many people, period) just go to therapy to play along and to manage impressions, so they don't get anything out of it. They don't truly want to change, or don't even think there is a problem.[/quote]
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