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Reply to "Why do husbands never leave for the affair partner?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ individual therapists will pass no judgement or force the hand of any client that brings up having an affair. Most of therapy these days is fluid and polyamory positive. There is very little morality in therapy, particularly with younger therapists. They will treat the individual, [b]but never conceive that 'hey--maybe it's this double life you are leading that is causing your anger and stress'. Maybe if you 'picked one', you would not be ready to snap at any minute...and probably wouldn't need to drink as much alcohol to deal with your duplicity.[/b][/quote] They're supposed to be leading the patient to this conclusion on his own. If it was as simple as someone telling him to do the right thing, or as you say, simply make a choice and own it, there wouldn't be so many people in this mess.[/quote] I once asked my therapist why they don't cut the crap and just tell people what they are doing wrong. She laughed and said most would run out of the room screaming and never come back if confronted with their shortcomings. [/quote]
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