Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Schools and Education General Discussion
Reply to "Schools back in-person in 2022 due to mass-vaccine"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous](And I do realize 2:28 is a troll. I'm just curious what they'll say.)[/quote] I don't think they are a troll because I didn't write that post but I wholly agree. You -do- have to plan for emergencies. Granted the pandemic was unforeseeable; however school shutdowns have occurred because of the flu or fire or other circumstances. You're a dumb and careless parent if you don't consider your backup plan for that. Or if your childcare falls through unexpectedly. In the case of the pandemic, I don't think anyone could have predicted the spring circumstances a year prior; however, this fall was completely predictable. In April and May members of my friends and family group began talking about what we would do if school didn't reopen in-person in the fall. Just because you're an ostrich with its head in the sand doesn't mean the rest of us were or are. If you're scrambling right now, the end of October, because of your ineptitude and failure to anticipate what you needed to do to support DL for your kids then that's on you for not being a good parent and caretaker of your child/ren, special needs or otherwise.[/quote] Schools don't shut down for 1+ years. They didn't for past pandemics, wars or national disasters. When I was growing up my high school was destroyed by a tornado. We were back in classrooms a month later after they found alternative space for us and power was restored to most of the town. Shutting schools down indefinitely is unprecedented. How do you prepare for this? Really, how? I've been trying get him into private therapy programs. But, half of them are still shut down (or virtual), and the other half are overbooked. Which absolutely makes sense, since I'm sure I'm not the only person seeking extra private therapy to make up for the loss of SPED programs. So we've got child care taken care of. If for some reason my current provider fell through I have a list of alternatives. When it comes to child care, I'm confident that I could deal with nearly any foreseeable outcome. What I can't deal with, though, is a broad shutdown of educational services in the county for an extended- and indefinite- period of time.[/quote] Where did either of those two earlier posters go? The ones telling me I should have foreseen having an autistic child during a pandemic. I'd really like to know how I could have planned for this better. Apparently a lot of people could benefit from their insights, given that I'm told ABA therapists are being slammed with requests in Montgomery County and they're not able to accommodate the demand. [/quote] I'm back. I've had a busy day. Here is what you should have done: line up support. Why weren't you contacting MoCo in April and May about what was happening? Why weren't you calling your insurance about coverage for therapists in June and July and August? Why weren't you working with other parents of SPED kids for a pod? Why weren't you working with your employer to rearrange your schedule so that you could be more present during the day for your kid? Why didn't you work with the school to establish a set of core classes that your child will attend and classes that he may or may not depending on your day? [b]You seem to have copious amounts of time to spend here on DCUM complaining but I don't see you saying anything about what you have actually done. [/b] Cry me a river and I'll build a boat for me and my kid because I planned ahead while you didn't. As far as I can tell what you have done is...NOTHING. Get your act together and start being a better parent.[/quote] DP. Out of curiosity, are you a diagnosed psychopath? You come across as one.[/quote] Well, bless your heart! :lol: Nope. Just someone who is realistic and pragmatic, and who doesn't put up with a bunch of bs from people who would rather whine and complain than do something proactive and positive. [/quote] You don't sound particularly realistic or pragmatic to me. But you do sound like a psychopath. That having been said, many psychopaths are quite pragmatic, so perhaps that's why you see yourself that way. Interesting, in any event.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics