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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^Problem is that you assume they care. Plenty of men don't care AT ALL if they live in filth and squalor or whether their meals are nutritious that they feed their families. They just don't care and are never going to do it themselves.

I knew plenty of guys in college that never cleaned the bathroom once and just moved to a new apartment every year. They'd scrub the one fork they were going to use, but leave the rest dirty or eat out every night. Basically living like pigs.[/quote]

Sure, there are men who live in squalor. However, most men also find this unacceptable.  If someone is willing to live with dirty diapers on the floor and unable to get a child ready properly, then they need to see a mental health professional.

The majority of men who don’t pitch in are simply taking advantage of unpaid labor of their DW.  Guarantee you diaper guy has A relatively clean office at work.  [/quote]

Likely not. Women get stuck cleaning up men's messes at work too. I remember when I (a young lawyer) got stuck on a rotating duty to clean the fridge and also do records filing. I didn't mind doing that, but the guys who were just as new as me didn't get tasked it. Only women got tasked with items like that and we had higher degrees than the men too. [/quote]

Omg I hate this. I did work study a few years back (where I worked in exchange for a discount on a certification I wanted). They had me do things like vacuum, clean up the kitchen and break room, round up everyone when it was time for class to start, etc. There was a guy also doing work study who did literally nothing. His excuse was that he was a first year med student, so he would be doing "important" work like writing papers for them - that he never actually did.

The real kicker is that he had a crush on me and would come WATCH me clean up and talk to me while I was busting my @$$. [/quote]

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