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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What if when you try to have a conversation about it, your husband just sits there and doesn’t engage? Or minimizes everything you say and brushed the whole thing off like no big deal?

Leaving doesn’t fix the problem either because then he will have the kids alone a lot more and many more things like this will happen.[/quote]

My husband has been like that sometimes, the conversation is not over until we've talked it out, full stop. Maybe we need to cool down before we have it, but that conversation above would just...that conversation would not happen in my house.

To me, in that conversation, there is years worth of resentment and unspoken issues. I would be furious if I came home and my daughter had been sitting in wet underwear watching tv for hours. But there must have been a million things leading up to this. And if my husband had been like that for two years and talked to me like that then yes I'd leave. I can't imagine a man like that wanting equal custody but I'd also document neglect. Leaving a child soiled is actual abusive behavior.

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