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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ so then you would agree in a sex-filled marriage (3-5 times per week), affairs are a big f@cking deal, correct?

[b]And, if you are deeply in love with your spouse, having good sex, the betrayal and lies are devastating.[/b]  Period.  OP doesn’t care because she wasn’t having sex anyways.  Not the case for many others out there.  The end all trust forever.[/quote]

As long as you’re getting your, what do you care?[/quote]

Oh come on.  Stds, lies, betrayal, risk to family security/safety, finding out your married to someone with zero integrity and poor moral character....should I go on?[/quote]

* you’re[/quote]

The bolded.  You are completely blindsided which is so disorienting.  The cheater really is like a sociopath because he carried on loving, acting normal and having sex 3-4 times per week.  The betrayal feels deeper because the marriage was good without resentment.  So- how could you?  It’s f@cked up that people in good marriages do cheat as Esther Perel and Shirley Glass both point out.  There is a foundation that may make reconciliation possible since live is there, but forgiveness and trust is even harder in these instances.[/quote]

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