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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] “Affair choices are usually far more neurotic than marriage choices. [b]When one is chosen to be an affair partner, one should not feel complimented.  The most important characteristic of such affairees is their immediate availability.” [/b]However, with adultery-OP- it would be wise to remember Woody Allen’s comment “The most expensive sex is free sex”.[/quote]

Pretty accurate.  Not too choosy online: where do you live, when can you meet, do you want nothing more than sex? Bingo! We found our affair partner (love of our life for a few months-year :lol: ).[/quote]

It becomes a serious problem when one party reads much more into the relationship than the other.  It's usually the woman doing this since they have a harder time separating just physical from emotional.  Men have no problem saying anything a woman wants to hear to get between her legs.[/quote]

I don't really think this is true.  You can see it over and over on this forum.  Men see physical intimacy and admiration as being more or less synonymous with love and emotional connection.

The reason men don't place as much importance on the relationship is because they are almost always more powerful than their AP.  [/quote]

Hahhaaa.  Haaaaa.  That’s funny.  You know more than 99.9% of experts on infidelity.

The man is “more powerful”.  Wtf?  Sweetie, get back on the Internet and find a new “powerful” f@ck.

Men want to f@ck. Period.  They want one dumb ho to talk them up so they can “feel” powerful.  If he hasn’t left his wife for you, he doesn’t love you...and he’s really not that powerful.  Just a liar.[/quote]

I don't know.  Maybe some of those experts should talk to actual men.  
If you look through the responses on sexless marriages, many, many men chime in and say that they do not feel emotionally close with their wives when they are not having sex, and feel that there is a very strong connection between love and sex.

I actually think that women can disengage and compartmentalize sex much more easily than men can.  [/quote]

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