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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Either don't go or bring extra food and look at the expense as an investment in your friendship.[/quote]

This.

Traveling with others is hard. You really need to know people and feel comfortable discussing these issues beforehand.

“Suzy, I’m bringing doughnuts and pop tarts for my kids and fancy cheese and wine for myself. Recognizing that your kids might want some, should we just plan a joint menu and split costs? That way, we’ll make sure we have enough food and we won’t have to deal with any tears when I refuse to share my wine and cheese with you.”

The reality is you and your friends likely have very different approaches to parenting. You might bring plenty of yummy food, while your friends bring a limited number of food their kids seemingly hate. There will be issues unless you address at the outset.

When we travel with friends and family (which we’ve done domestically and internationally), we basically adopt a team mentality. All parents pitch in to help all kids (even if they aren’t your kid); all food is fair game, so we bring plenty. [b]We also agree that any weirdo health freak parenting nonsense won’t apply during vacation. Nobody wants to listen to your poor kid pitch a fit because you won’t let him eat ice cream or drink juice like the other kids. [/b][/quote]

I'd like to know what you weigh.  [/quote]

I know parents like you. I’ve seen your kids double fist chips and cookies at parties because they aren’t allowed to eat them at home. I listened to moms like you wonder why their daughters have eating disorders.

Eating some fun food while on vacation doesn’t promote obesity. Forbidding treats and making a big deal about sugar and calories absolutely promotes eating disorders and body image issues. 
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As long as we're playing this game, I know parents like you.  Kids wolfing down Ho-hos and donuts and potato chips without a care in the world.  Never really eating vegetables.  Growing up into fat teens and adults who cry that they have a weight problem and have no clue what to do about it.

You letting your kids eat utter garbage is absolutely setting them up for a decreased quality of life and a myriad of health issues.  But enjoy your Oreos as you waddle around the campsite[/quote]

You’re so wrong.

There’s a difference between eating treats on vacation and eating crap 365 days a year.

We don’t get doughnuts everyday. We do get doughnuts a couple times when on vacation.

We don’t make big breakfasts everyday at home. We do make a big breakfast buffet a few times a week when vacationing with friends and family.

We rarely go out for ice cream at home (not even once a month), but we get ice cream or some other boardwalk treat a few times when on vacation.

See the difference? We lighten up a bit. The kids stay up later, too. It’s a vacation.

Your salad and water vacation sounds miserable. Truly. [/quote]

Maybe if you knew how to actually make a salad, it wouldn't be miserable for you to make it.  Maybe if you werent used to eating soda, drinking water wouldn't seem like a punishment.  Maybe if you knew how to make healthy versions of things (it's not that hard, your kids wouldn't be whining for donuts)

I do the "big breakfast buffet" thing too, but it's healthy stuff, not Hostess cupcakes laid out.  And anyone who wants to disparage people for that can enjoy their bad health.  I will eat my "health food" which is delicious and also nourishing.  YOU can enjoy your diabetes.  But it's sad to do that to kids [/quote]

Wowza...you are really projecting.

FTR, I don’t serve hostess cupcakes for breakfast (I don’t believe anyone does). And I don’t drink soda or serve it to my kids. They do enjoy a Shirley Temple or craft root beer when the social event dictates a proper drink.

I eat salad regularly. But when I’m at the beach, I’m eating crabs, crabcakes, shrimp, burgers, etc.

I eat veggies regularly...including on vacation. But I prefer to enjoy local food when traveling. I love conch fritters and mudslides when I’m vacationing in the Caribbean. I love pasta and pizza in Italy. I can eat my weight in cheese and chocolate in France. I’ve been known to find the best local bakery for fresh bread and pastries. While your family eats salad at the resort, my family is eating at some local hole in the wall/off the beaten path restaurant or shack with the locals. I love that my kids prefer the private coves where locals swim than the crowded resorts or touristy beaches. I suspect we burn more calories running around the island or city than resort squatters do. [/quote]

LOL... and so what would make you think "crabs, crabcakes, shrimp, burgers" would fall into the unhealthy category?  Do you know NOTHING about nutrition?  Or you just wanted to argue about nothing?

The fact is, different people have different standards for nutrition.  You can load your kids up with whatever unhealthy food you want (since that was the POINT of this whole thing- you seem to be veering far off topic into reminiscences of vacations past- snap out of it!) and I will feed my kids nourishing, healthy food.  You can set your kids up for a lifetime of eating chicken fingers and fries if you want, my kids will learn to eat greens and healthy proteins and smoothies.  You do you, I'll do me.  That's the point, capiche?  But don't you dare try to shame me for eating healthy "crap"- we'll see what pays off in the long run!  Eat as many french fries and pizzas as you want- and enjoy the blowing up waistline! [/quote]

Will do!

I’ll pray for your children that they don’t inherit your obvious obsession with food and weight. And, I’ll pray you are able to see your future grandchildren...recognizing that your kids’ future in-laws will definitely be the preferred grandparents to vacation with and celebrate holidays. I can picture your thanksgiving feast and the dry mashed potatoes. Hint: you need to add butter, cream and salt.

PS - If you post again, I think we’ll need to give you a nickname. You wouldn’t by any chance happen to be CCCL? [/quote]

And i'll pray for your kids that they don't inherit your lack of reading ability, argumentativeness, and poor diet!  We'll see who's healthier in 30 years, won't we?  :)   I can picture your few holidays- with kids that never end up having families of their own because theyre too fat to find a partner!

How about we give you a name, if you post again... maybe?  PRCFA? [/quote]

(Spoken in a hushed voice): Um, Suzy? I think you just confirmed what everyone was thinking. Are you okay? Lashing out at strangers who are clearly just screwing around online isn’t normal. Arguing aggressively with invisible posters and saying mean things about them doesn’t make you the calm, rational person you claim to be. Now that we know how you feel about carbs, can you share where you stand on booze and pills? You might need some...or a lot. [/quote]

Awww, Judy why don't you take your own advice?  Now you were just "screwing around" and didn't mean any of your posts?  Nice backtrack.  Maybe it's time for a donut and a glass of milk and you'll calm down a little.  A few carbs to mask the pain. [/quote]

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