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[quote=Anonymous]I say send a letter I had a process server ( subpoena) knocking on my door and the doors of my neighbors.  Ex H was a named paramour in their divorce proceedings.  Ex H had moved out a few weeks prior and I was blind sided.  I would have appreciated finding out about it in a less public way.  I was humiliating to have the process server knocking on the doors of neighbors asking if when was the last time they had seen DH.  I would have willingly told the DH of the cheater everything I knew if he had just contacted me directly.

I also would have not wasted time “trying to work things out”. If I had known. A heads up or been made aware of the knowledge that his wife was infertile due to a long history of undiagnosed and untreated STDs would have been helpful as well for multiple reasons. I would think most people would want to know what is going on.  Cheating is not without consequences.  You can’t trust a DH who would knowingly expose you to a young 20 something year old who has already had so many STDs that she actually damaged their reproductive organs so severely that she was inferior.  No thanks I’m not interested in dying of some Uterine or Cervical cancer. Also not interested in or having scarred tubes because EX H has a weakness for nastiness and a sob story!

Also reassuring to know that there will be no accidents to compete for resources.  Send a letter so much bette than a subpoena on your door.  Subpoena are public record.

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