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I don't have friends though. All my friends turned out to be major flakes.[/quote]

Amazing isn't it? The problem is always someone else, and not you. ALL your friends deserted you? They're ALL flakes? What are the odds?[/quote]

They didn't desert me. I did because I realized they just came to me to gossip negatively, turned 2 face on me, or only called me when they needed me but [b]women friends are like that[/b]. [/quote]

Nope, nope nope.  As a woman, I tell my male single friends to be very cautious of a woman who doesn't have at least a small circle of female friends. It's not a deal breaker, but it should be a yellow caution light.

You really need to get a handle on why you are choosing people that are untrustworthy or gossipy or what have you as friends.  It's simply not the norm for people to not have friends, to always have people desert you.  Are you driving people away?  Work on your judgment, your ability to perceive someone's good character (or lack thereof).  You can't separate male-female relationships from the overall issue you are having with interpersonal relationships as a whole.[/quote]

Yes, you're right. I have a big lack of trust in people because people I loved or was close to and thought they were friends betrayed at some point in our friendship. When I lose trust I can't gain it back and I tread carefully. I think that makes me appear distant and careful with people. I do regret not bonding and making friends with people who wanted to bond.[/quote]

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