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Who are you to make the decision for your wife?  It's so patronizing for you to say that you know what's good for your wife, and it just conveniently just happens to be what's good for you. /s

You sound like you're rationalizing it and it's just not right thing to do for your wife.  Either she'll say go for it and you have permission from her or she will not be happy but at least she has a say in it as well.  It's a 1950's attitude toward your wife.  It's time to move beyond the 1950's attitudes.

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His wife has decided to stay in their marriage and remain sexless. He is giving here exactly what she wants, in the only way possible. If she wanted to divorce, they would be divorced. She has opted out of his sex life and has no more right to vote on what he does sexually. He does not need her permission, no more than she needed his permission to be sexless.[/quote]

Except one of them is breaking their vows to be faithful.  She has every right that he’d not cheat on her and simply pleasure himself.  [/quote]

I'm a woman and this sounds nuts to me. If you aren't having sex with your husband and you know that he is unhappy with that as well as otherwise healthy, surely common sense has to tell you he is having sex with someone and not just his hand.[/quote]  Thank you for that. There is so little common sense among most of the women responding.  It's like a breath of fresh air to find one who gets it.  It really is common sense. Can you imagine telling a woman who is denied sex by her husband that she should be happy to take care of business on her own for the rest of her life?  I know they have some really high-tech toys for women these days but I've got to believe, it doesn't doesn't take the place of the D.[/quote]

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