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Who are you to make the decision for your wife?  It's so patronizing for you to say that you know what's good for your wife, and it just conveniently just happens to be what's good for you. /s

You sound like you're rationalizing it and it's just not right thing to do for your wife.  Either she'll say go for it and you have permission from her or she will not be happy but at least she has a say in it as well.  It's a 1950's attitude toward your wife.  It's time to move beyond the 1950's attitudes.

[/quote]I've made a decision for me.  Not for her.  It has no effect on her.  I'm not asking her permission to have sex with someone else and [b]I'm not blowing up what I have by telling her.[/b]  I don't seek her permission.  She didn't ask my permission to end out married sex life.  You are wrong, she has no say in my decision to have an AP.  I have no say at all in her decision to shut down our sex life.  If she cares to turn a blind eye to the reality of our situation, I'm fine with that. Denial is one way to deal with it.[/quote]
What exactly do you "have"? Why don't you tell her what you are doing, and then she can decide whether to "turn a blind eye to the reality" of the situation or not. She does not know the reality of the situation because you are keeping it from her. Why is this so difficult for you to grasp?[/quote]

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