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[quote=Anonymous]New to this thread and reluctant to post but I thought I’d contribute my mindset. Mid 40s, married 10 years, and I’ve stepped out on DW a few times. Each time has been on a business trip with a random person (I.e. not a colleague). The “why” for me is simple: a desire for the sexual variety I enjoyed in my 20s and early 30s. It has nothing to do with my sex life with DW. By definition, she can’t give me the variety that I sometimes crave. The idea of a long-term affair at home is gross to me. Not interested in that at all. And I’m disgusted and ashamed that I’ve done this. But once in a while I just find the urge to get laid by someone new completely uncontrollable and irresistible. I don’t plan to do it again. I hope I don’t. But I didn’t “plan” it when it’s happened either. [/quote]
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